K-town Bound?

Well, mom is really pushing for me to move to K-town. I've always wanted to go back, but I have N now and that's a factor. WE have to decide. He says he's willing as long has these certain factors are okay (rent/where, utilities, gas, food, internet, min. wage, money), and whether or not I have the job before we move. Mom said she'd help me out... ME... not N and me, just me. I honestly think she's trying to split us up, only because I think she thinks he's not good enough for me.

UGH! What to do!? I could really use some advice here, anybody's opinion would work. Moving to a new state (though I've lived there before). We were talking about bring our friend D with us, since he's always wanted to live in A-State. Oh the details. I wonder *how* you can find out what minimum wage is there...